You've decided on a wedding day.
You've picked out the church. You've got your photographer. What time should
the ceremony be? When should the reception start? How much time do you need for
photos? Planning your wedding day time-line can be difficult. Let's break it
down and see how much time you should plan for each section of your wedding day.
Your Ceremony - typically
you can expect a Justice of the Peace civil ceremony to last 30 minutes
maximum. If you are planning a full mass service - you should plan a full hour
to the ceremony. If you are doing a receiving line after the ceremony - plan on
about 20 minutes for every 100 guests. (If you have 200 guests, your receiving
line will take 40 minutes!). If it's hot out, you do not want to keep your
guests in the heat - let them get to the air conditioned reception site.
Exposing your guests to extreme heat for prolonged periods of time drains their
energy - and they will not be as responsive later on for dancing.
The photographs - if you are
not doing photographs prior to the ceremony, you need to dedicate time to get a
good formal photograph session. Typically you should plan 30 - 45 minutes for
formal photos. (this does not include travel time to and from photo session
location) The more family and bridal party, the longer photos will take.
Travel - obviously it takes
time for your guests and the bridal party to get from point A to point B. Take
into consideration any special traffic situations on your wedding day (is it
near a major concert, sporting event, etc? If so, traffic may be an issue and
you should either plan on circumventing this area in your travels or plan on
travel taking longer than normal)
The Reception - most people start their
reception with an hour social hour. If you expect to be long taking photos, you
might want to extend the cocktail time to an hour and a half. Typically, at the
end of cocktail hour, we do formal introductions and first dance, blessing and
toast. If you are having social hour in a separate room, plan on 10 minutes to
15 minutes transition time for your guests. It will take about 30 minutes to
organize introductions, introduce everyone, first dance, bridal party dance and
blessing/toast. If you are having more than 1 toast, ensure that each person
knows that their toast should be brief (2-5 minutes). If someone gets up and
does a 20 minute toast - that is 20 minutes that you will not have later on in
your reception for dancing. Time is of utmost concern at a wedding - make sure
you curtail both blessing and toast to an appropriate timeframe. We've seen
clergy give 20 minute blessings and best men eat up 30-40 minutes for their
toast.
Dinner - from start to finish, your meal service
should be between 45 minutes and 75 minutes maximum. There are many facilities
that drag out or are slow on meal service. If so, you should consider dancing
between courses to allow for maximum dancing time and to mask the slow meal
service from your guests.
Dancing - at a typical 5 hour reception - you
should expect 2 - 2 1/2 hours of dancing. Everything that takes longer above,
eats into this dancing time. If your concern is to have all your guests up and
dancing, then you need to keep everything else in check to allow for this.
In Summary:
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Ceremony - 30 - 60 minutes
Receiving Line - 0 - 60 minutes
Travel Time (between ceremony and reception site) - 0 - 45 minutes
Cocktails - 60 - 90 minutes
Introductions/Formal Dances - 30 minutes
Meal Service - 45 - 75 minutes
Dancing - ?
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