John Mayer—Daughters

Josh Groban— You Raise Me Up

Martina McBride—In My Daughter’s Eyes

Ray Allaire—A Song For My Daughter

Paul Anka - Times Of Your Life

Louis Armstrong - What A Wonderful World

Backstreet Boys—The Perfect Fan

Harry Belefonte - Turn Around

Boyz II Men - Mama

Kippi Brannon – Daddy’s Little Girl

Bob Carlisle - Butterfly Kisses

Nat/Natalie Cole - Unforgettable

Celine Dion - Because You Loved Me

Holly Dunn - Daddy’s Hands

Beyonce—Daddy

Tim McGraw—My Little Girl

Fleetwood Mac—Landslide

Billy Joel—Lullabye

Elton John - Blessed

Tony Kenny – My Son

Kenny Loggins - Rainbow Connection

Barry Manilow—I Am Your Child

Al Martino - Daddy’s Little Girl

Bette Midler - Wind Beneath My Wings

Kenny Rogers - Through The Years

Mikki Viereck - Song For My Son

Frank Sinatra - Summer Wind

Temptations - My Girl

David Chamberlin - In Your Eyes

Molly Pasuttie—Man You’ve Become

Josh Groban—You Raise Me Up

Jimmy Buffett—Little Miss Magic

Steve Kirwan—My Little Girl

Heartland—I Loved Her First

Paul Simon—Father and Daughter

Selections from Billboard's Top Radio Airplay

Affordable Centerpieces for Your Wedding Reception By Mia LeCron 

When it comes to decorating your reception tables, the centerpieces for each table play a major role in setting the tone and style of your wedding. They will be one of the major focal point for your guests while they are eating their meal, and spectacular or unique centerpieces can add an element of sophistication or surprise to your event.

The most established kind of centerpiece is flowers and it is the most expected. There are literally hundreds of floral centerpiece designs, from tall lilies to tightly packed roses.

You should really shop around and check out different wedding supply shops and online specialists to see the different possibilities, and look at the varying prices. You must also remember that you will need a centerpiece for every table, so it could get expensive if you are planning to invite a large guest list.

For a cheaper option, buy the flowers yourself from a wholesaler, and produce simple displays such as six tulips in a glass vase. You could also use the bridesmaids’ bouquets as centerpieces to really get the best value out of them.

Believe it or not, this happens all the time. Instead of fresh cut flowers, consider using potted plants as centerpieces. You can decorate terracotta pots and pick plants that flower in co-coordinating colors to your scheme.

These centerpieces will last long after the day has finished, and provide a lovely gift for those you would like to give them to.

Popular alternatives to floral centerpieces include candles and fruit. Candles are a wonderful way of creating an air of romance and enchantment for your wedding, and look particularly effective if your venue is dimly lit. However, if you plan to hold your reception in the afternoon, with plenty of natural daylight, candles may not produce the appropriate dramatic effect.

You could purchase candelabras for each table for an elegant look, or consider the less formal appearance of floating candles in a large glass bowl.

You must ensure that any holders or bowls you use are heat-resistant, and also check with your venue for any restrictions they may have on the use of naked flames.

Fruit is a nice and decorative choice, and can also be eaten later in the evening! Other edible choices include candy, chocolate lollipops or Hershey’s Kisses. Use your imagination to display whatever treats you choose in an exciting way, using glitter, streamers or balloons.

You can be as original as you like when it comes to your centerpieces, and you could choose something really personal such as hand-written poems or family photographs in ornate picture frames.

If you are having a themed wedding, create a unique centerpiece that reflects the wedding motif. A wonderful centerpiece for an oriental themed wedding is a bonsai tree, or large origami creations. Anything that matches your theme is best.

My Wedding Cake by Donna Everett (Creative Cakes by Donna)

A wedding cake is a reflection of a bride's personality and can range from "Elegant and Simple" to "Fun and 'Funky", or "Seasonal and Creative". Don't be afraid of color! Orange roses look awesome and create a warm and fuzzy look on a soft yellow frosting.

Do not buy a wedding cake based on looks alone. Many have been gravely disappointed. Price doesn't always match quality when it comes to a wedding cake. An experienced cake decorator can usually duplicate any photo you can throw at her. Always go to a reputable baker. Ask around. And finally, taste! Don't let a dry, cardboard cake finish off a great meal. Give your guests a dessert they can talk about. End your meal on a delicious, positive note.

A wedding cake has four components. It should be a focal point in the room. (Besides you, of course) The cake should be moist. If it has filling, it should be light and not stick to the roof of your mouth and the frosting should not be solid lard! Ask the baker what goes into their frosting. Butter cream frosting is an ambiguous term in wedding cake industry. The frosting should have a sufficient amount of actual butter in the recipe. Amazingly, most do not!

Many bakers have web sites. This is a great way to use your time and will show you the capability of your decorator before driving around in the car.

After choosing your wedding cake, think about the table presentation. Embellish your wedding cake by adding some height, pedals, greens, votive candles, ribbons, fabric fluff, cake stands, etc. Think about it! It's amazing what a little effort will accomplish.

In choosing your flavor, think about a nice dessert you would put out if you were having a party at your home. It's impossible to please all of your guests, so go with what you think is delicious. After all, it is your day! So take advantage while you can! Make it "Your" choice!

A wedding cake should be served as a dessert. Many banquet facilities prefer to put it on a dessert table with other delicious endings. It's easier for them. This defeats the purpose of completing a traditional meal. Even though Venetian dessert tables are absolutely delicious and ornate, there are many people who will not leave their seats for one reason or another and will not get dessert! It is etiquette to serve it! And please don't put your cake in boxes!

If a wedding cake is moist, it does not need a flood of ice cream seeping in to moisten it. By the time you return to your table, your cake plate is a mess! A cake should be able to stand on its own. You have spent a great deal of time searching for the right cake person so......... Let them eat cake!

Donna Everett, Creative Cakes by Donna  www.cakesbydonna.com   courtesy of Mywedding-planner

17 Things To Think About When Planning Your Wedding

Are you or is someone you know having a wedding reception? Here are 17 things you probably never even thought of that professional mobile deejay, Dan Nichols of Boogie Brothers Productions LLC in Michigan suggests make for better parties. I first want to point out that it is rare that all these items are followed in any given event but the more you can adhere to them, the more likely your party will be at full steam come closing time.

1) Don't put the older guests next to the dance floor/speakers. If you have to ask why, then you may want to hire a harpist all night.

2) Don't cram your entertainment out of the way -- your entertainer should be seen. Powerful entertainers will work to get people on the dance floor but they must be seen as part of the action, not just some side show.

3) A party should end when it shouldn't end, not when it should. Ending a party before it dies down leaves everyone with the impression the floor was packed all night. It just feels better when people are left wanting more versus being completely burned out.

4) A "too small" dance floor is better than one that is too big. The answer is simple as it creates the illusion whether real or not that the floor is full. People are more likely to dance when the crowd on the floor is dense than when they feel like the only ones out there. Take it from the trade that knows about dancing and crowd psychology not from the banquet manager selling you on why a huge floor is so important. If people end up dancing on the carpet then great they end up dancing on the carpet and the story of your floor being so packed people couldn't even fit on the floor only further reinforces my point.

5) Darker is better than lighter for dancing. People feel less of a spectacle, less "on stage" when they think they're harder to see. That is why crime increases at night as well -- and yes, when some people dance it is a crime. This one works along the same lines of psychology as tip 4.

6) Keep exit doors closed. Doors are inviting and you don't want to invite people outside of the main room. Having them open allows more light into the room which again works against the psychodynamics of the dance floor. Open doors invite people to their cars in the parking lot. You want to keep their focus in the reception room for as long as possible.

7) This is a very general statement - Nicer places, (country clubs etc.) actually make it harder, especially in the summer and fall months to get people up and moving because they are so pre-occupied enjoying the scenery. Think about it...would you rather enjoy a cold beverage on a breezy deck outdoors amidst the trees or a sweaty dance indoors? It isn't that the night can't be great but all things being equal nicer venues pull from the floor potential. As a deejay I love playing nicer events and usually do as that's my target market but it can't change simple human nature. If you're having your party/reception at a really nice venue then you'll just want to pay closer attention to some of these other factors to tip the scales in your favor.

8) Bars should always be in the main room. Preferably closer to the dance floor but not in the way of any lines to the bar. If a bar and/or desserts are put out of the main room then a huge percentage of potential dancers are unavailable. Bars are like kitchens and they draw people to them. If you can help it, don't make your dj wrestle with the draw of a bar.

9) If you are going to shut the bar down for 30 minutes of say 6 hours, do it during dinner. If you do it at say 11:30 then the party will more likely die out as people will feel that it's time to go.

10) Happy music keeps things going. Keep away from any negative vibes at all. Keep the mood up up up.

11) Respect the musical opinions of your local professionals. They do this for a living. Be careful not to cut out all the "cliche" wedding music as you'll find this will negatively impact the dance floor potential. People dance to what they know. A wedding reception is not the time and place to prove to your friends and family that you are into obscure music. You've got a lot of people from all over your family tree that want to have a good time so let your deejay exercise all his or her tools and really work his or her craft.

12) Your wedding vendors should eat with the guests and not be fed a soggy club sandwich in the janitors closet. From years of experience, the more brides and grooms treat their vendors as guests, the more likely their unpaid guests will respect us too. I find it rather ironic that the nicest venues have some sort of craptitude (made up word) toward the dj, bands, photographers and video crew and will encourage the bride and groom to shovel them off away from the action during dinner with a plate of moldy (I’m not kidding) cold cuts. Wouldn’t it make sense that they be right near the action? Not to mention if you treat your vendors like second class citizens how do you think that affects their attitudes? Your pros will bend over backwards for you if you just treat them with the same respect you’d treat your guests with. I can tell you now that professional wedding vendors will go the extra mile for you when you treat them right.

13) Don't do a dollar dance. Why? The reason is that when the bride and groom are doing this the guests realize they won't be seen slipping out the door. It also stops the momentum. If you must do one, do it early on after the main dances and limit it to 3 songs maximum.

14) People tend to remember the beginning and the end of an event. That's why your deejay should do a strong grand introduction and play while your guests are enjoying cocktails early on. This helps him (or her) to build rapport early on and if done right it puts your dj in a more powerful position to work your crowd all night.

15) It is best for any traditional events or speeches to be done and out of the way before dancing begins. In addition, it is important for pictures of the bridal party and bride and groom to be done, when at all possible, before the dancing begins. As a deejay I have seen more parties lose steam because the bridal party is having pictures taken after the bridal dance. Do all the pictures before. It may cost you an extra hour earlier in the day but it will save you from losing a good handful of guests early on.

16) Do all you can to arrange your rehearsal dinner 2 nights before, NOT 1 night before the reception. Why? I have seen many weddings where the bridal party was burnt out from the night before and this can (not always) play a big factor in building some inertia on the dance floor.

17) If you have to cut corners don't compromise on the entertainment. My clients never complain that they paid too much for my services. Also, know that experience is king -- I am a better dj after every event I do.

Dan Nichols owns a small personal deejay service out of Royal Oak, MI and has been in operation for 16 years. His website can be found at http://www.theboogiebrothers.com/index2.htm  and he can be reached at 248-541-0250. In 2006 The Knot Wedding Pages surveyed Michigan Brides to come up with the top 10 entertainment companies in the state. 6 of them were bands and 4 were deejay companies. The only small dj company to make the list was Boogie Brothers Productions LLC. Dan is also a small business coach, published author and columnist for the Disc Jockey News.

DJ Ryan - "In Dreams W-e D-i-e" concert dates - DJ Ryan of After Hours DJ will be performing not as a DJ but as the guitarist of "In Dreams W-e D-i-e".  His first concert date is at Pearl Street in Northampton, MA on February 3rd where they will be opening for a Slipknot cover band.  Other concert dates will be posted on their website as they become available.  Check them out.