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April 2007 EDITION
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Top Parent Dance Songs

John Mayer—Daughters

Josh Groban— You Raise Me Up

Martina McBride—In My Daughter’s Eyes

Ray Allaire—A Song For My Daughter

Paul Anka - Times Of Your Life

Louis Armstrong - What A Wonderful World

Backstreet Boys—The Perfect Fan

Harry Belefonte - Turn Around

Boyz II Men - Mama

Kippi Brannon – Daddy’s Little Girl

Bob Carlisle - Butterfly Kisses

Nat/Natalie Cole - Unforgettable

Celine Dion - Because You Loved Me

Holly Dunn - Daddy’s Hands

Beyonce—Daddy

Tim McGraw—My Little Girl

Fleetwood Mac—Landslide

Billy Joel—Lullabye

Elton John - Blessed

Tony Kenny – My Son

Kenny Loggins - Rainbow Connection

Barry Manilow—I Am Your Child

Al Martino - Daddy’s Little Girl

Bette Midler - Wind Beneath My Wings

Kenny Rogers - Through The Years

Mikki Viereck - Song For My Son

Frank Sinatra - Summer Wind

Temptations - My Girl

David Chamberlin - In Your Eyes

Molly Pasuttie—Man You’ve Become

Josh Groban—You Raise Me Up

Jimmy Buffett—Little Miss Magic

Steve Kirwan—My Little Girl

Heartland—I Loved Her First

Paul Simon—Father and Daughter

 



Acoustic Dave can perform for your social hour, dinner or rehearsal dinner.  Dave will blend classic rock (Rolling Stones, Creedence) with a mix of softer rock (James Taylor, Jimmy Buffett) to create a very unique feel to your event. 

Now, if you're having a small wedding (less than 100 guests), you can request Dave to perform your entire wedding reception.  He'll blend both live and recorded music with a mix of DJing and live performance at a very reasonable rate for those having a small event budget.  Come check out Acoustic Dave.


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Selections from Billboard's Top Radio Airplay

Glamorous, Fergie
Waiting For The World To Change, John Mayer
Break It Off, Rihanna / Sean Paul
The Candyman, Christina Aguilera
Wait A Minute, Pussycat Dolls
The Sweet Escape, Gwen Stefani
What Goes Around, Justin Timberlake


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We Want To Meet You In Person - The members of the DJ Network want to meet you at a convenient location near you.  We cover all of New England and customizing events is what we do best.  Sit with us and learn what an impact using one of the DJ Network members at your event will make.

Here are some dates/locations where we will be meeting clients (evenings).  Please let me know if any of these work for you. (we will pick a location that best suits your needs).  We are also normally available during the daytime for those of you who work off-shift hours:
 
Thursday, April 5th -Barnes & Noble, Holyoke, MA 
Friday, April 6th - Barnes & Noble - Millbury, MA
Monday, April 9th - Panera Bread - Enfield, CT  & Manchester, CT 
Tuesday, April 10th - Panera Bread -  Newington , CT 
Wednesday, April 11th -  Providence, RI and Westerly RI Area
Thursday, April 12th - Mystic Marriott, Groton, CT & Panera, North Haven, CT
Monday, April 16th - Starbucks, Farmington, CT
Tuesday, Apr 17th- Starbucks, Westfield, MA
Wednesday, April 18th - Panera Bread - Manchester, CT
Thursday, April 19th - Barnes & Noble - Millbury, MA
Friday, April 20th - Barnes & Noble - Waterbury, CT
Monday, April 23rd - Starbucks, Danbury, CT
Tuesday, April 24th - Starbucks, Stamford, CT
Wednesday, April 25th - Sheraton, Framingham, MA

 
 
Don't forget, we can always meet you during the day if that is more convenient. 


 



The DJ Network - NEW CDROM

The DJ Network just released their new CDROM.  Simply place the CDROM in your computer (PC or MAC) and it will play our video clips, audio clips and tell you all about our services.  If you'd like a copy of our new CDROM, please request one through our website/via email.



Affordable Centerpieces for Your Wedding Reception By Mia LeCron

When it comes to decorating your reception tables, the centerpieces for each table play a major role in setting the tone and style of your wedding. They will be one of the major focal point for your guests while they are eating their meal, and spectacular or unique centerpieces can add an element of sophistication or surprise to your event.

The most established kind of centerpiece is flowers and it is the most expected. There are literally hundreds of floral centerpiece designs, from tall lilies to tightly packed roses.

You should really shop around and check out different wedding supply shops and online specialists to see the different possibilities, and look at the varying prices. You must also remember that you will need a centerpiece for every table, so it could get expensive if you are planning to invite a large guest list.

For a cheaper option, buy the flowers yourself from a wholesaler, and produce simple displays such as six tulips in a glass vase. You could also use the bridesmaids’ bouquets as centerpieces to really get the best value out of them.

Believe it or not, this happens all the time. Instead of fresh cut flowers, consider using potted plants as centerpieces. You can decorate terracotta pots and pick plants that flower in co-coordinating colors to your scheme.

These centerpieces will last long after the day has finished, and provide a lovely gift for those you would like to give them to.

Popular alternatives to floral centerpieces include candles and fruit. Candles are a wonderful way of creating an air of romance and enchantment for your wedding, and look particularly effective if your venue is dimly lit. However, if you plan to hold your reception in the afternoon, with plenty of natural daylight, candles may not produce the appropriate dramatic effect.

You could purchase candelabras for each table for an elegant look, or consider the less formal appearance of floating candles in a large glass bowl.

You must ensure that any holders or bowls you use are heat-resistant, and also check with your venue for any restrictions they may have on the use of naked flames.

Fruit is a nice and decorative choice, and can also be eaten later in the evening! Other edible choices include candy, chocolate lollipops or Hershey’s Kisses. Use your imagination to display whatever treats you choose in an exciting way, using glitter, streamers or balloons.

You can be as original as you like when it comes to your centerpieces, and you could choose something really personal such as hand-written poems or family photographs in ornate picture frames.

If you are having a themed wedding, create a unique centerpiece that reflects the wedding motif. A wonderful centerpiece for an oriental themed wedding is a bonsai tree, or large origami creations. Anything that matches your theme is best.

 

Mia LaCron is the founder of Cut-Wedding-Costs.info - http://www.cut-wedding-costs.info - devoted to helping individuals live out the wedding of their dreams on a realistic budget they can afford.


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The DJ Network members all accept Paypal as a payment option.  You can pay your deposit out of your paypal account or make small payments each month to pay down your balance.  Or you can sell off all your childhood memories and pay for your wedding without coming up with a dime out of pocket.  Either way you look at it - paypal is a great way to securely send money to anyone. 

If you are interested in using paypal to secure or make payments for our services, please email us and we can direct you on how you can use paypal.


What's it all about....?  Line Dancing History Unfolds.

Some of those over played wedding songs that you love to hate, do have some trivial back stories that may interest you.  They may or may not change your mind to add them to your wedding song list:

The Chicken Dance: 

This unique Polka is often considered an Oktoberfest standard.  Stories claim that the song was written in the 50's by Swiss Accordion player Werner Thomas in Davos, Switzerland while tending a flock of Ducks and Geese.  Originally entitled "Der Ententanz" (The Duck Dance), the tune crossed the Atlantic via traveling Polka bands and became "The Chicken Dance".   

The dance was popularized in the United States in 1981 during the Tulsa, Oklahoma, Oktoberfest by the Heilbronn Band from Germany. They wanted to demonstrate the dance in costume but there were no duck costumes available anywhere near Tulsa. At a local television station, however, a chicken costume was available which was donated for use at the festival. And that is how the "Chicken Dance" got its name. 

There are many versions of the poultry theme song also known as "Vogeltanz" (Dance Little Bird), "Dance de Canards" and "The Bird's Dance".  Steps to the dance can be found here.

The Hokey Pokey: 

The song is said to have originated in England as "the Okey Cokey" and popularized by G.I's in England during World War 2.  Bob Degen of Lexington, KY owns a 1944 copyright of the song "The Hokey-Pokey Dance" but Larry LaPrise, legend has it, "invented" the song for ski crowd at a Sun Valley, Idaho resort in the 1940's and recorded it in 1949 with the Ram Trio.  The rights were bought by Ray Anthony who recorded it as the 'B' side to "The Bunny Hop" in 1953.  Larry LaPrise, died April 13, 1996 in Boise, Idaho, at the age of 83.  Steps to the dance can be found here.

The Time Warp: 

"The Time Warp" is without a doubt the most popular song from The Rocky Horror Picture Show movie released in 1975 and starring Tim Curry & Susan Sarandon. The original 1973 London Theater Company production written by Richard O'Brien was only meant to run for 6 weeks.

The movie musical was a flop but went onto cult status when on April 1st, 1976, it was played at the Waverly theatre at midnight. It was a success, and rapidly developed a large following. The regulars started dressing up as characters from the movie and even started yelling things back at the screen. This escalated to the audience participation we have today. 

The song is played on the radio, at clubs, at school dances, and even by marching bands. People who have never seen the movie often know how to do The Time Warp. Steps to the dance can be found here.

The YMCA: 

The Village People was created in 1977 by French record producer and composer, Jacques Morali. The group was named after New York’s gay district in Greenwich Village. It is believed that the group was designed to attract gay audiences while parodying some of the stereotypes found in the gay community. As everyone knows by now, the group was made up of "macho men," including a cop, a construction worker, a cowboy, a biker, a Native American and a soldier. 

The Song "YMCA" was released in 1978 and reached number 2 on the Billboard Top 40 Charts. Y.M.C.A. stands for "Young Men's Christian Association," which is commonly associated with the gyms that often provide temporary housing to men. 

Originally considered an anthem for the gay community, the song has long been popular with people from all walks of life. It’s become the most frequently performed song at sporting events in the U.S. with everyone singing and dancing using the well-known arm movements that spell out the letters Y-M-C-A.

The Electric Slide: 

‘The Electric Boogie’ was recorded by Marcia Griffiths and produced by Bunny Wailer in 1982. Griffiths was one of Bob Marley’s backup singers, the iThree's, for nearly a decade, and Bunny Wailer was a Wailer. 

In 1989, the song exploded into popularity. Numerous re-recordings and re-packagings ensued and ‘The Electric Slide’ emerged as a Washington, D.C. and Virginian dance craze which quickly infected the rest of the country.  

Strangely enough, despite it's enormous international popularity, the song never cracked the Top 40 charts. Steps to the dance can be found here

Da Butt:

Sung and performed by E.U (Experience Unlimited) from the 1988 Spike Lee movie "School Daze". The song has it's own dance, which involves simply shaking your butt when instructed by the lyrics.  Spike Lee directed the video for this, and even appeared in it, shaking his butt. 

This is one of the biggest hits with the "go-go" sound - a fun mixture of dance, rap, and funk. "Go-go" has been popular in the Washington, DC area since the '70's. 

The Achy Breaky Heart:

Sung by Billy Ray Cyrus from Flatwoods, Ky, who bought a guitar at age 20, then played in local bands named Sly Dog and the Breeze. He spent 1984 to 1986 in Los Angeles, looking for a recording contract and supporting himself by selling cars.  Next he lived in Huntington, W.Va., and traveled regularly to Nashville in search of the elusive recording deal. Finally, Cyrus was signed to Mercury Records in 1990  

Although the song has an amusing title and upscale rhythm, it tells a sad story: a couple are breaking up, and Cyrus asks that his heart be spared the pain because his heart `might blow up and kill this man.'  This was a remake of a 1991 song by the Country act The Marcy Brothers, titled "Don't Tell My Heart." 

In 1992 the "Achy Breaky Heart" spawned dance contests held in dance clubs across the country.Steps to the dance can be found here

The Macarena:

"Macarena" is a song by Los del Rio (Rafael Ruiz and Romero Monge) about a woman of the same name.  Diana Patricia, the Venezuelan flamenco dancer inspired the song.  It was originally released in 1993, as a new flamenco rumba pop fusion theme with Spanish lyrics, with a significant success in Spain. "La Macarena" is one of 8 sections (known as "quarters") of Seville, Spain. That's where they got the name. The song originally had no dance.  

After being remixed by the Bayside Boys and having English lyrics added, it became a worldwide summer hit in 1996. The single spent 14 weeks at number 1 on the U.S. Billboard Hot 100 singles chart.  

In the original version, Macarena (which means "Mother of God.") is upset because her boyfriend, Vitorino, has joined the army. She retaliates by going out on the town and carousing with other men. In the Bayside Boys mix, Macarena gets mad at her boyfriend and goes out to shake it while he's out of town. 

During its heyday, it was played incessantly at professional athletic games, rallies, the United States Democratic Party's National Convention, and other places.  The Israeli national radio station "Galatz", chose "The Macarena" as the worst song of the 1990s. As for the dance credit can be assigned to Mia Frye, the choreographer of "The Macarena" video.   Steps to the dance can be found here

The Cha Cha Slide:

DJ Casper - Cha Cha Slide sometimes called "The Casper Slide"  The Cha Cha Slide is a dance created by Chicago's Willie Perry (DJ Casper, aka Mr. C). It is an update of the Electric Slide, and includes DJ Casper's called-out instructions.  The rhythm of the Cha-Cha Slide is based on an obscure 1993 dance/club song "Plastic Dreams" by Jaydee (aka Robin Albers). 

DJ Casper developed the Cha Cha Slide in 1996 for Bally Total Fitness; it became a hit with gym members, and the dance's popularity prompted Chicago's WGCI radio station to approach Mr. C to record a song to showcase the dance The Cha-Cha Slide in 2000. The following year, the song and dance caught on around the USA.  Steps to the dance can be found here

If you don't like these selections please advise your DJ Network entertainer to remove them from your event playlist.  If you like these songs and would like to learn these dances, please feel free to contact you DJ Network entertainer for step-by-step instructions at your next event.


Custom Recordings

You've planned your event for many months to be perfect in every detail. A day filled with hugs, loving glances and softly spoken 'I do's"...the unforgettable passion of a first dance with the person of your dreams.  Your DJ Network disc jockey can  now create a custom mix song for your first dance.  Using sound clips from your ceremony, toast or prerecorded in-studio - listen to what we can do for you.

 SOUND CLIP1       SOUND CLIP2       SOUND CLIP3

These are unique and customized recordings specially designed to make your wedding reception a memorable occasion.  Ask your DJ Network disc jockey about this exciting upgrade today.


Are You Or Your DJ Using Illegal Song Downloads?
 
A 2005 decision by the 7th Circuit Court of Appeal clearly establishes that people who illegally post or download music files are primary infringers of copyright law and that this decision represents a long-sought appellate victory by the RIAA (Recording Industry Association of America), which began its legal battle against individual file swappers by filing hundreds of lawsuits in September 2003. 
 
While there is no way to know exactly what the RIAA is going to do, who it is going to sue, or even how much music qualifies as a "substantial" amount, The Electronic Frontier Foundation, a San Francisco digital-rights group, has published a list of suggestions on how to reduce the chance of being sued by the RIAA.  Here are a few: 
 
1. Make sure there are no potentially infringing files in your shared folder.
2. Remove all potentially misleading file names that might be confused with the name of an RIAA artist or song (e.g., "Usher" or "Madonna") from your shared folder.
3. Disable the "sharing" or "uploading" features on your P2P application that allows other users on the network to get copies of files from your computer or scan any of your music directories.
4. Do not allow your computers to be "Supernodes" on the FastTrack P2P System (used, for instance, by KaZaA and Morpheus).  To learn more about Supernodes and how to make sure your computer is not one, look here: http://www.whtvcable.com/fasttrack/
 
Since we have no idea what the RIAA will do next, The DJ Network cautions prospective Bride & Grooms who plan on using illegally downloaded music. Especially if you are planning an "iPod Wedding" or using Mix Tapes/CD's. 
 
A professional DJ should purchase their music legally through various subscription services for the specific use of performing.  All of the DJ Network professional DJs have such a subscription to cover us legally when performing at your event.  Check with your DJ which service they use and verify that the music is not illegally downloaded. 
 
Also, The DJ Network suggests services such as the iTunes Store  & Real Audio Rhapsody.  Where for as little as 99 cents or a monthly subscription of $9.99 you can get legal and cheap access to a universal music library.  There are lots of artists who share their music with you for free, in the hopes of furthering their art or fan base, look here: http://www.artistdirect.com 

Bridal Show Season - Upcoming Bridal Shows:


Wed Apr 18th - Eastwood Manor, Bronx, NY

Sun Apr 22nd - Maneeley's - South Windsor, CT *

Wed Apr 25th - Villa Barone Hilltop Manor, Mahopac, NY

*  See The DJ Network or one of their members at these shows

 



The DJ Network Goes To Mexico

Are you having a destination wedding or event?  Don't think that you are limited to whatever entertainment that you can find locally (Disney, Carribbean, etc.).  The DJ Network is equipped to go international.  Just this past month, Rob of After Hours traveled to Isla Navidad, Mexico to DJ at the Grand Bay Resort for a week with one of their corporate clients. 

We have the capabilities to handle shipping, customs, work visas.  Call us and inquire about your destination event today.  Imagine how much easier it would be to work locally with us on planning your event v. trying to do it over the phone or email.  This way, there are no surprises on your wedding day. 


Lighting Options

Gone are the days of police beacons, strobe lights and flashing colored light bulbs. Currently there are many high tech options for lighting your wedding reception. Is your reception under a tent? The ceiling of the tent works wonderfully with theatrical style lighting, such as subtle color changes, flowing water patterns, or a custom gobo displaying images of constellations and a delicate blue tint onto the ceiling. Want more of a club feel? Enter the era of high-tech club style lighting, with fast moving, color changing lights, and lights that create spinning patterns all over the dance floor and walls. Or, do you simply want a shifting color wash on the walls or columns in your banquet facility? A professional DJ can create this type of soft atmosphere within your facility. Ask us about the possibilities in club style or color scheme lighting.

 



17 Things To Think About When Planning Your Wedding

Are you or is someone you know having a wedding reception? Here are 17 things you probably never even thought of that professional mobile deejay, Dan Nichols of Boogie Brothers Productions LLC in Michigan suggests make for better parties. I first want to point out that it is rare that all these items are followed in any given event but the more you can adhere to them, the more likely your party will be at full steam come closing time.

1) Don't put the older guests next to the dance floor/speakers. If you have to ask why, then you may want to hire a harpist all night.

2) Don't cram your entertainment out of the way -- your entertainer should be seen. Powerful entertainers will work to get people on the dance floor but they must be seen as part of the action, not just some side show.

3) A party should end when it shouldn't end, not when it should. Ending a party before it dies down leaves everyone with the impression the floor was packed all night. It just feels better when people are left wanting more versus being completely burned out.

4) A "too small" dance floor is better than one that is too big. The answer is simple as it creates the illusion whether real or not that the floor is full. People are more likely to dance when the crowd on the floor is dense than when they feel like the only ones out there. Take it from the trade that knows about dancing and crowd psychology not from the banquet manager selling you on why a huge floor is so important. If people end up dancing on the carpet then great they end up dancing on the carpet and the story of your floor being so packed people couldn't even fit on the floor only further reinforces my point.

5) Darker is better than lighter for dancing. People feel less of a spectacle, less "on stage" when they think they're harder to see. That is why crime increases at night as well -- and yes, when some people dance it is a crime. This one works along the same lines of psychology as tip 4.

6) Keep exit doors closed. Doors are inviting and you don't want to invite people outside of the main room. Having them open allows more light into the room which again works against the psychodynamics of the dance floor. Open doors invite people to their cars in the parking lot. You want to keep their focus in the reception room for as long as possible.

7) This is a very general statement - Nicer places, (country clubs etc.) actually make it harder, especially in the summer and fall months to get people up and moving because they are so pre-occupied enjoying the scenery. Think about it...would you rather enjoy a cold beverage on a breezy deck outdoors amidst the trees or a sweaty dance indoors? It isn't that the night can't be great but all things being equal nicer venues pull from the floor potential. As a deejay I love playing nicer events and usually do as that's my target market but it can't change simple human nature. If you're having your party/reception at a really nice venue then you'll just want to pay closer attention to some of these other factors to tip the scales in your favor.

8) Bars should always be in the main room. Preferably closer to the dance floor but not in the way of any lines to the bar. If a bar and/or desserts are put out of the main room then a huge percentage of potential dancers are unavailable. Bars are like kitchens and they draw people to them. If you can help it, don't make your dj wrestle with the draw of a bar.

9) If you are going to shut the bar down for 30 minutes of say 6 hours, do it during dinner. If you do it at say 11:30 then the party will more likely die out as people will feel that it's time to go.

10) Happy music keeps things going. Keep away from any negative vibes at all. Keep the mood up up up.

11) Respect the musical opinions of your local professionals. They do this for a living. Be careful not to cut out all the "cliche" wedding music as you'll find this will negatively impact the dance floor potential. People dance to what they know. A wedding reception is not the time and place to prove to your friends and family that you are into obscure music. You've got a lot of people from all over your family tree that want to have a good time so let your deejay exercise all his or her tools and really work his or her craft.

12) Your wedding vendors should eat with the guests and not be fed a soggy club sandwich in the janitors closet. From years of experience, the more brides and grooms treat their vendors as guests, the more likely their unpaid guests will respect us too. I find it rather ironic that the nicest venues have some sort of craptitude (made up word) toward the dj, bands, photographers and video crew and will encourage the bride and groom to shovel them off away from the action during dinner with a plate of moldy (I’m not kidding) cold cuts. Wouldn’t it make sense that they be right near the action? Not to mention if you treat your vendors like second class citizens how do you think that affects their attitudes? Your pros will bend over backwards for you if you just treat them with the same respect you’d treat your guests with. I can tell you now that professional wedding vendors will go the extra mile for you when you treat them right.

13) Don't do a dollar dance. Why? The reason is that when the bride and groom are doing this the guests realize they won't be seen slipping out the door. It also stops the momentum. If you must do one, do it early on after the main dances and limit it to 3 songs maximum.

14) People tend to remember the beginning and the end of an event. That's why your deejay should do a strong grand introduction and play while your guests are enjoying cocktails early on. This helps him (or her) to build rapport early on and if done right it puts your dj in a more powerful position to work your crowd all night.

15) It is best for any traditional events or speeches to be done and out of the way before dancing begins. In addition, it is important for pictures of the bridal party and bride and groom to be done, when at all possible, before the dancing begins. As a deejay I have seen more parties lose steam because the bridal party is having pictures taken after the bridal dance. Do all the pictures before. It may cost you an extra hour earlier in the day but it will save you from losing a good handful of guests early on.

16) Do all you can to arrange your rehearsal dinner 2 nights before, NOT 1 night before the reception. Why? I have seen many weddings where the bridal party was burnt out from the night before and this can (not always) play a big factor in building some inertia on the dance floor.

17) If you have to cut corners don't compromise on the entertainment. My clients never complain that they paid too much for my services. Also, know that experience is king -- I am a better dj after every event I do.

Dan Nichols owns a small personal deejay service out of Royal Oak, MI and has been in operation for 16 years. His website can be found at http://www.theboogiebrothers.com/index2.htm  and he can be reached at 248-541-0250. In 2006 The Knot Wedding Pages surveyed Michigan Brides to come up with the top 10 entertainment companies in the state. 6 of them were bands and 4 were deejay companies. The only small dj company to make the list was Boogie Brothers Productions LLC. Dan is also a small business coach, published author and columnist for the Disc Jockey News.


Your DJ Should Do More Than Just Play Music And Make Announcements

A professional DJ will act as both Disc Jockey and Master of Ceremonies, or MC. Your MC will coordinate all the behind the scene details for you, guide you through every aspect of your wedding reception and will be, in essence, your wedding coordinator that day.

Your banquet facility contact will be responsible for organizing the meal and clean up, but that is typically where their role ends and where your professional DJ will take over. Your DJ will make sure that your bridal party and parents know where to be, where to go, and what to do. They will line everyone up for introductions and will make your event flow smoothly from one event to the next. They will sense the energy level of the party and will react to keep things upbeat and festive and in tune to the directions that you have given them as to the feel that you want at your wedding, whether it be low-key or high energy interaction.


The DJ Network is a combination of three highly motivated and exclusive Disc Jockey companies: After Hours DJ Service, Atmosphere Productions & Standing Ovation. The combined talents of each companies professional Disc Jockeys makes us the largest organization of Disc Jockeys in New England.

The DJ Network provides a FREE referral service for ANYONE in need of professional sound, lighting or audio/video for Weddings, Corporate Functions, Family Gatherings, School Dances, Bar Mitzvahs & Bat Mitzvahs. Forget about calling multiple companies. Our pooled resources can furnish whatever you need within the New England area.

The DJ Network member Disc Jockeys adhere to a strict code of conduct and maintain the highest industry standards and excellence in service.

 

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